i also think you should message the beautiful girl you met in the supermarket again. you say you’ve never had to pursue a girl like this before and think you’ll look desperate if you contact her more than once, but wasn’t that the point of what you wanted? to date some one who WASN’T like the one night stand women you used to date? the kind of girl you want is not going to be as easy to get and you are going to have to make an effort and work at getting them. if you expect them to be easy, then you should go back to dating the sluts. if you want someone who is better quality you’re going to have to take more risks and try harder. 😉