Thanks for the reply. I guess you are right. I have never pushed for a girl recently as I have read books like the game and other books that say you should never look desperate and didnt think I shoud be leaving her message after message…but by playing it cool over the last 4 or 5 years it really hasnt worked for me and hence I have been single for ages! I think you have a point definately. I may have to live outside my comfort zone a bit, but thats all part of getting the girl I want right? Any other advice would be greatly appreciated, bcoz I am so keen to get a girlfriend and still dont know what I can do to get one!! thanks