Thank you both for your replies!!!! I absolutely agree with both of you! I think you both have given me some great advice and I will certainly follow what you have said — now I feel a lot better going into our talk. I have, obviously, thought about this a lot – searched the internet for tips and articles about meeting with an ex. All of those articles suggest game-play. I don’t play games, I am too old for games, and I think that being honest is the way to go. I feel like I have nothing to lose at this point and playing games only makes things more convoluted in the end. I plan on meeting him on Friday. I will let him talk and say what he has to say and I will support him and give him his space. Thank you again for your replies!