Hi April,
I need some advice. I am interested in a guy at my gym. He was in a relationship with a girl and it appears to have ended months ago. She goes there also, but I notice they don’t even speak to each other anymore.
When is the right time to approach someone after they breakup with someone?
It appears to me, that she is over him because she ignores him. I am not sure if he is over her, because I notice how he looks at her when she is there.
He is the kind of guy that only had eyes for her. I never saw him speak to another girl nor have I seen him look at any girls in interest. So it makes it hard to determine if he is over her.
I heard from someone else she is already seeing someone else.
I have read many advice columns that say women shouldn’t approach men. Men should approach women. It is against “The Rules of Dating”.
I can tell this guy is different from other guys. He seems like a nice guy. He doesn’t flirt or hit on the women in the gym like most of the other guys there.
Should I wait to see if he notices me?What should I do if anything?
Thanks,
CaraC
