Sorry, Charlie. We can’t always get what we want — and those Rolling Stones know from whence they speak. But think about it. Really. Why would you want someone who broke up with you shortly after you took him to a family wedding? This guy got a taste of intimacy, which is what introducing each other to your families is all about, and he bolted. He’s not into a relationship with you. And you know it because you say he’s wishy washy. He’s not really wishy washy — he’s very clear he doesn’t want a relationship.
Now I’m sorry if this sounds harsh, but it drives me crazy when women keep pounding on doors that are closed rather than sashaying gracefully through those that are open. My advice is to value yourself so much that you wouldn’t waste another second on a guy who isn’t interested in you. In a way, he did you a favor by not wasting your time. Now you can move on and find someone who treasures you. And trust me, if you value yourself, you’re going to give off an aura of confidence that men find irresistible, and it’s going to make them want to chase you and capture you. But don’t forget to give them a good chase otherwise they won’t realize what a prize they have when they finally win you over. You deserve the best. Now go out there and find it.
