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Re: Where is this friendship going? really need advice

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Freddy
Member #3,080

That nice guy thing is a crock. Women do want nice guys; they just don’t want puppy dogs. Women like a guy who is confident with themselves. It’s OK to tell a girl you like that your busy with other things and can’t call them back right away or go out that day. It’s OK to disagree with them during a conversation and have your own opinion. It’s hard to respect anyone who does and agrees with everything you say. Have a personality!

Women like sex as much as guys do but if you are afraid to touch them or look them in the eyes confidently they will only see you as thier freind…like a brother.

Most guys that won’t make a move on a woman do so because they are not confident. They think ‘how could I do that…she may not like it if I do that’. Well, if you’re confident, you think ‘why would she not want me to’? I’m good looking, I’m funny and she probably likes me because hey…why would’nt she like me? I’m a great catch.

It’s our job as men to pursue. Women don’t spend all that time looking beautiful to not be noticed. I personally don’t know any women who want to be treated poorly by a man or who likes a jerk. If they do they have issues and you are better steering clear of them anyway.

And if you get rejected…welcome to the club! You will never know unless you try and unless you try you will never find those who are interested in you.

Getting rejected sucks but the only thing at risk is your ego so if you can get over that you will better off.

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