[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like something isn’t right, and in order to figure out what it is, I think you have to be single for a while. Since you’re 25, and you had a six year relationship with an older man, and a long distance relationship before that, it sounds like you’ve been a serial dater for about half of your young life already!

My advice is to give yourself a break from dating. In order to be in a healthy relationship, you have to be healthy as a single person first! Give yourself that opportunity. I think that you’ll be able to get to know yourself and figure out what’s important to you more easily if your life isn’t complicated by a relationship.

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