You didn’t say that you and this woman ever dated, so I’m going to assume you were good friends. Because you’ve never shown her your true intentions, it makes a lot of sense, from her perspective, that she’s now got a boyfriend and can continue her friendship with you.
You needed to let her know that you wanted to date her. 😳 Since you’re just a friend, I think you have to either accept her relationship with her boyfriend and decide if you want to be a third wheel, move on, or throw a hail mary and very late in the game, and ask her out on a date.
Your timing is really off, so I don’t think she’s going to want to date you now that she’s already reunited with her ex and is planning to move in with him.
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