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I fall in love with my guy best friend. We’be been friends for 7 yrs already. But he likes this girl. But they didnt talk much. The girl likes him too. They rarely text.He said that the last time he texted the girl was on friday and thats it. Not either one of them wanted to make the move to text first. But my guy best friend texted me all the time. I wonder if he starting to like me or no..

[Ask April Masini]

I think he does! 🙂

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Would you really think that he will
had fallen for me oneday ? This is a huge thing for me , Because if you say yes. I might give up to move on from him and just continued treat him normally. But if no , just say so, because i can move on 🙂 . The way he treated me by pranking me, offers to call if im sad or crying or really not in the mood. And btw , ive confessed that i like him. But then , after changing topics. He said “Friends?” so , do you understand this confused situation. I just wanted to know if he will fallen for me oneday? I mean he started open up about all the stuff to me nowdays. He once said that he wanted to marry with someone who understands him and live the life just the way he did. Well, i did… and he said that he wanted to know who’s my future husband because he thinks that my husband would be the patient type. Well , he’s patient with me.. ugh help me !! 🙁( Lots of love! xx

[Ask April Masini]

How old are you both?

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18 (:

[Ask April Masini]

Got it. I don’t know if he likes you as more than friends — I know only what you tell me. You’re there, and I bet you have very good instincts! 😉 I think you should flirt with him, but don’t put all your energy into this relationship since he hasn’t really asked you out on a date, and you don’t know where you sand with him. Continue to look elsewhere as well as to nurture the flirtation you have with him. That way you’re not too invested, emotionally or otherwise, yet you haven’t given up your feelings. I hope that helps!

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Thats the thing, I had a boyfriend back to when i was 12 so its probably stupid and childish. So .. um how do you flirt with a guy like him, like he’s my best friend and i like him. How do i flirt , in a texting way …? Can you give me a few examples ? Btw , thank you for a very powerful advice before this ! 🙂 xx

[Ask April Masini]

You’re very welcome and thanks for the kind words. 🙂

Flirting simply means engaging with him in ways that let him know you like him, without telling him. The bottom line is that you want him to feel good about being with you. So… simply smiling at him, holding his gaze, laughing at his jokes and complimenting him are the best ways to start! If you can flirt in person, it’s going to be much more powerful than using texting. You can convey your feelings with lots of nuances in person. Texting sometimes loses meaning.

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But im not type of girl. Im not the girly type. Im not gentle…. Im not a tomboy either. Its just that i wear clothes like girls but i dont act like one. I still secretly screaming inside if i saw a hot guy walking passes me hahahaha. Well he knew , and obv he knew me that im not that easy to complements people. I just think the best way to flirt with him is simply by just being me and to be there wheenever he needs me and listen , listen wheenever he’s talking or telling me stories. Remembered the little details about it. I tend to confuse up the situation dont you think ?

[Ask April Masini]

If what you’re doing works for you, then you should go for it! But if you want my advice on how to let him know you like him without coming out and telling him (and putting pressure on the relationship and him), then flirting the way I suggested is the best way to do that. Of course, you should tailor my advice so it fits your own personal style. 😎 If you’re not comfortable with something I recommend, see if you can put a creative spin on it and make it your own. 🙂 But remember, the idea is to make him feel good about being with you and letting him know you’re interested. Focus on that!

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Alrighty ! Thank you so much april xx
Have nice day ahead 🙂

[Ask April Masini]

You’re very welcome! 😀

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