[Anonymous]

I am a true admirer of yours. I love reading your posts and by providing valuable feedback you are indeed doing us a great service. Keep up the good work.

Now back here, some interesting things has started unleashing in my life.
A few days back a friend of mine who was engaged to his girl friend for the last 5 years got split on a bad note since their relationships did not work. I had also known her since then. But till now my friend has not mentioned me a trace of his relationships going kaput with his fiancée. Instead his fiancée got touch with me a few days (via online) back that both of them had split and said she does not want to hear from that guy again. She was quite broke. Since then I provided her the moral support (thru email messages only) to accept the life as it is and move on gracefully. She seems to recover quite soon and we started exchanging pleasantries (decent conversations) in mail. But what happened in our last email conversation was something close to steamy. She asked me that does not she look attractive and charming to me. Also in her initial exchanges of mail to me she either used to write “tc” (take care) or cyaaa (See you) in the closing part but now she has adding “Luv” besides “cyaa” in the closing part.
[b]Now what does that mean? Is it just a sign of friendly adoration or has she started inclining towards me or is that I am just too much curious or excited?[/b]
We are really gelling up well and we both enjoy taking part in our conversations. The tone of her message suggests that she wants to extract my feelings for her. I don’t know whether I have aroused some sort of amorous interest in her but now I am a bit chickenshit to a take a step further by displaying my interest in her.

[Ask April Masini]

You’re her [i]rebound guy[/i]! 😕 She’s suffered a blow in her break up, and you’re the knight in shining armor that’s kindly helped her through this rough time. Since she doesn’t have a boyfriend, and you’re a nice guy who’s a known entity to her, you’re safe — and attractive.

There’s nothing wrong with you asking her out, or dating her, but understand that you may get your heart broken when she realizes one day down the line that dating you was part of her therapy to get over the break up she’s just suffered. People do all sorts of things to avoid pain, and dating you will help her not feel alone, not feel unloved and not feel unsexual.

I hope that helps you make a decision on what to do next. 🙂

[Anonymous]

Thanks April for yr prompt feedback

[Ask April Masini]

You’re welcome! Good luck. 😀

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