First off, a little about myself. I’m 23, a senior in college, and have only been in one relationship during my freshman year in college. I find it hard to meet new girls, as I’m always occupied with school work, or focusing on my hobbies which include car racing and bicycle racing, needless to say I’m busy a lot of the time.
I’m a good looking guy and I always notice girls looking my direction, but I’m not a big small talker so going up to a stranger on the street and trying to pull a number really isn’t my thing. It’s not that I’m shy, but I work a lot better if I know the girl already or have been introduced some how.
So anyway, I started a new class about 5 weeks ago and noticed a really cute girl in the class. I’ve noticed her looking at me during class before, and we’ve made eye contact and smiled at each other once. Unfortunately there haven’t been any opportunities for me to get to talk to her. I try to catch her after class but she always walks back with her friend. Last week we had our midterm exam, so I sent out an email to the entire class asking if anyone wanted to start up a study group to prepare for the test. The only response I got was from the girl I was hoping to get one from, and she said “Yes! That would be great!” Awesome, I think, here is an opportunity for me to get to know this girl and ask her on a date possibly, she seems interested as she was the only one to respond back (I took this as a hint). I email back asking her about her schedule and what would work best for her. Unfortunatly Tuesday passes (sent the first email monday evening), and I didn’t get a response back. Wednesday was the test so our study date never happened. I email her back later wednesday, as again there was no chance to talk to her during our exam. I jokingly say hey, I think you forgot to let me know your plans the other night. She responds saying she was very sorry she couldnt make it to a computer all day. We exchange a few more emails talking about how easy the test was, and left it at that. On Thursday I friend her on facebook, I wanted to see if she was in a relationship with anyone. She accepts, and it looks like she is single! I talk to one of her sorority sisters who is also a friend of mine to double check. Unfortunately she says she may still seeing her boyfriend from back home.
At this point I dont know what to do. I thought this girl was interested in me, but maybe she is just really nice and not looking for a relationship? Do I wait until Monday to see her in class again, or should I find out if she is doing anything this weekend? I don’t have her number yet, and we’ve only talked through email. I really don’t want to make it a weird situation were I ask her out through facebook and she says no. Going to class the rest of the semester would definitely be weird. What should I do?
