I’ve been friends with a guy for nearly 3 years now. We both go to the same college and he is my best friend. He had crushes on several other friends of mine, and I was always the go to person for all his girl friend related issues and problems.
For the past 6 months, he hasn’t been crushing on anyone but has been spending time with me a lot. We watch movies together and now I feel like we are closer than before, because we talk about everything and anything. When he goes on any road trips with his friends, he got me chocolates, coffee mug etc. as small presents. And there this was one night where we were watching a movie and he started play fighting with me and took off my top and felt my breasts. He apologized for his actions the next day saying we are of both opposite genders and bound to attract. And I didn’t know how to interpret his actions and statement. And this happened another 3 times. Does he like me, or is he just sexually attracted to me? The problem is I liked him since the day we met but since I’ve seen him crushing hard on other girls, I didn’t feel like reciprocating his actions and didn’t even feel like questioning him about his actions.
The other day I wore a dress and I received so many compliments from my friends. There was even this one guy who complimented me saying I was looking nice in that dress. But my best guy friend tells me it doesn’t suit me, and that I should not wear that dress. I always get confused between opposite gender friendships and when a guy is actually interested in you.
What to interpret from his actions?
