Divorce is more traumatic than most people give it credit for. Regardless of who instigated your divorce, you felt stung and rejected. You let Mr. Wrong into your life, and now you’re afraid of being alone, so you’re putting up with all kinds of disrespectful behavior. That’s WHY you’re doing it.
Now, the question is: What will make you stop disrespecting yourself by living with this Mr. Wrong? You know he’s wrong because you wrote me looking for help. I’m going to tell you that the ONLY way you will have a good life is if YOU garner the courage to kick him out and decide to only let in men who are right for you. And DON’T ask someone (or allow someone) to move in with YOU after only three months. 😕
So kick him out. Nurse your pain with healthy behavior that favors you! Like exercise, makeovers, new hobbies, volunteer work, reaching out and making new, healthy friends, etc.
You deserve Mr. Right and you’re legally single. Now act like it socially, too, so you CAN be available for Mr. Right to snatch you up. As long as you’re with this guy you’ll never find happiness. Time to make some changes in your life. Today is that day you start!
And start first, by joining me on Facebook at AskApril.com on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].
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