[miramira123]

Around May this year, I got to know this boy from the internet. Well, since then, we text each other almost every day non stop.

Then he asked me to spend Christmas with him.. then, i went to his place and stayed for 5 days. During this 5 days, we make out and had outercourse every single night but no sex as I’m still virgin and he told me he will not disturb virgin. While we were kissing, he warned me not to fall for him as he can’t handle relationship well due to the failure in previous relationship. Well, the moment he told me that I was hurt and sad for the moment.. but at the same time I enjoyed kissing him 😕

I asked him so what is it between us now and he told me “complicated relationship” .. I am really confused. Should I continue with the flirting in the chatbox and messaging or just totally lost contact with him? Well, without doubt I do like him but luckily the feeling doesn’t go deep yet. Do you think he likes me? 😕

[sensibleshoes]

I believe he is giving himself an excuse if it doesn’t work. “I told you I couldn’t handle relationships!” I think you shouldn’t set your sights on jsut him, look around and date someone who may want to commit to you without letting you know you’ll be disappointed.

[Ask April Masini]

I’m not sure why you’re confused since this isn’t a traditional relationship to begin with! If you want a dating relationship then you have to choose a man who will actually date you. The internet is a GREAT way to get to know guys, but it’s not a good place to conduct a relationship — and then have one massive five day date, a year late! 😳 His behavior isn’t inconsistent — he acts like he doesn’t want a serious relationship and he’s backing that behavior up with consistent conversation. [i]You[/i] are the one who wants a regular relationship but behaves differently. 😮

My advice is to be honest with yourself that you want a boyfriend you can spend time with who wants to be in the same kind of relationship you want — and then go find that kind of guy. If you want an apple and choose an orange, it’s not going to ever taste like an apple! So go find what you’re looking for and leave this guy to pursue other women who want complicated relationships.

I hope that helps — and that you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 🙂

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