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Why has he not asked me out

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    chynnaa
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    I only ever see him at his work my local Coffee Shop.

    He done all the signs that he likes me, like staring smiling/gazing at me for more about 20-40secs. (I only notice because I look up from my drink/talking and he’ll be staring right at me, and I know he’s staring at me because sometimes I can be the only one sat their if it’s late so I know he’s not staring at one else)
    He also made 2 compliments that I was a polite person, always ask me how I am/how my day is and found that we have some fav tv shows in common so talk about, when ever he serves me.

    I sometimes stares back/ask about his day/how he and talk about the tv shows

    He’s also made a point of remember my order even to point of last night when I went he saw me and my family sit down and 30secs later he comes out with some cups of water and my free wifi passes, check’s that we all want our usually drinks, and says i’ll go and get the other staff to start making them for you. Then I went into about 1min later to pay and he had them on a tray ready for me like he was even going to brink them out to my table for me.

    When usally when you go you have to go up and order and wait/queue for your coffee as it’s a take away coffee shop. I’ve never see him do before/with any other customer.
    I am quite a regular and a few other regulars were their when I went and he made them all come up and order/queue for their coffee.

    It’s almost like he was trying to impress me/parents or something.

    He seems quite confident around other girls/his workmates.
    He talks to other girls that come in and sometimes sits with them on his break/after shift but he never stares/flirts with them only me. He almost seems act differently when I’m around.

    I know people say that he’s properly just a good/friendly customer services person, but all of his workmates are friendly, but they never go above and beyond like he does.

    He’s been doing all the signs since before Christmas but has still not asked me out.
    Why has he not asked me out/will he ever ask me out.

    I do like him.

    I’m really shy, so don’t want to be the one to ask him out/don’t want to ask in case he is being friendly, but doing all those things seems like he’s being a bit over friendly to me.

    Also I know that he single and has been for about 3 years

    Were both late teens/left school so around the same age

    What other signs can I give him to show him that I do like him too/to get him to ask me out

    #26966

    I think you’ve written to me before about this same guy and this same situation. What was the username you used to write to me before about this guy?

    #26968
    chynnaa
    Member #217,467

    Hi it wouldn’t let me login so I created a new user name my old one was ally21

    #26969
    chynnaa
    Member #217,467

    Hi it wouldn’t let me login so I created a new user name my old one was ally21

    #26959

    I’d like you to re-post this question in the string of posts you originally created on this subject so I can see everything about this relationship in one place. It will also help anyone else who wants to chime in and help you to see everything in one place, too!

    Let me know what your login problem was, and let’s get that fixed so you can have only one username — it’s a lot easier that way. 😀

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