[unknownafrican]

Thanks april ill do jst tht

[unknownafrican]

Now she says the only reasorn she didnt come see me and why she is so distant and acts like thic, which is aggresive nd as if she dose not care what happens is because she heard that i wanted to beat her up, and she want to focus on her study, bt she also is focused on the other dude during the years we have been dating ive neva shows her the reason to even think id do such a thing, im not tht type of guy, she says she is not sure if im telling the truth or jst planning secretly to hurt her, bt id neva even think of doing that, i guec i hv bin seeming desperate nd needy bt violent toward women aint me. I know she loved me with all her heart, she is changing the way she reacts towards me, she once really suggested we marry, she has also once told me she dose not see her self with any other guy, bt i dnt know what is with the way she gets aggresive nd refuse to talk about what she is doing, she said she is not proud of what she has done to me, bt had the nerve to say she is not going to refuse when the other guy calls him, during one of our arguements im the one wronged bt neva talk aggressive, what gathering from thic do you think is going on? Nd what should i do till next of next week when we meet, and how should i talk to her then, to truly get her to tell me everything

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I really love this girl nd we both believe,or believed that we wer soul mates coz i dont know how she feels anymore,i rememba jst last year she wanted us to marry in secret, now after she cheated the first tym nd i took her back immidietly after she appologised we were supose to meet ,she was suppose to come here nd we could try nd fix things, she made n exuse tht friday and said tht she wil cum on saturday on saturday she made another excuse and took the money i sent her to come nd spent it, nw i found out tht she and her very close friend went out, her close friend’s boyfriend are friends with the guy she is seeing now, ever since i found out the second tym she blamed me for putting spies in her life saying she dose not want to keep looking over her shoulder wojdering whi is my spy or not bt infact i neva sent anyone to spy on her she dsnt believe tht nd basically she broke up with me saying i must ask my spies to get me another girlfriend,nd tht when thic guy calls her she will go to him,what is she going to say to him is the reasorn she dose not want to cum. i think the reasorn she talks like thic is because i hv been sounding to needy of her love lately, calling like crazy nd texting like crazy, coz inside i blamed her friend for thic thier very close friends, infact i wuld say she is her only friend there since a lot of girls dont like her in tht boarding school, so i think she was feeling lonely when she would stay alone in the hostel and her friend having fun with her boyfriend, so finally her boyfriends friend hooked up with my gal, nd thts only my theory,so after thinking tht i kept trying to get throught to her, nd i think ive bin overdoing it seeming too needy, i even suggested an open relationship,after a while she agreed bt she is not giving me much attention, then finally she told me tht wat her and thic guy have is only temporary after these exams she might neva see him again,and is confused about us coz she knows no1 can love her more thn me nd she loves me too, bt thte fact tht i might neva trust her agen makes her confused about us, she stil has contact with the guy nd i dnt know hiw many tyms the keep slipin togetha bt she knows its temporary, then i kept asking painfull questions and she said lets not do this now she is busy with her final matric exams nd dosnt nid thic kind of stress, i had my fair chance to write matric nd she suggested we dont talk for a while, bt wat hurts is tht she is talking with the other guy. when i found out the first time nd was asking for me back she claimed tht someone knocked some sense into her, nd it was holidays therefore tht guy was not around infact she believed she was not goin to see him agen, she knows the other guy has girlfriends bt i dnt undurestand wat is it she wants, she wants me when he is not around nd i think thts the reasorn she wants us to talk wen exams are over coz she wil go amd might neva see the other guy again. In two wiks tym ill be there were she is to do my license, bt when i ask if she wants to see me she said she dose not know wen i ask why she remain silent nd eventually drop the phone,i asked her if she mices being intimate with me she said yes i asked her if she wants to be intimate wen we meet she remains sikent nd eventually drops the phone,making up exuses instead of jst saying yes or no, please tell me what u think is best i do i love her more than anything, wat to say wen we meet, wat u think is goin on,nd wat to do from now till then. I know deep down she loves me bt thic guys gets her mind of me, what is the best thing to do nw

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The reason we were fighting was because i didnt like how distant she was getting,and when i asked she would get defensive and not touch her phone to reply to my texts, she cheated i was the one who had to beg for her attention for even atleast an explanation,she was aggresive especially when i asked her secret lover what was going on, she told me to not bother calling her again but i did and thts when she started speaking as if she was sorry, she barely has tym to chat with me after i took her back with no hesitation, and now we just talk for a while and all of a sudden she has to do thic and thic bt remains online and reads the text i send her, and i keep telling her how much it hurts when she ignores me after what happened, nd she said tht she dose not like talking on watsapp,bt in the past we could even chat till the morning. Just today we were talking about us and told her how she made me feel, nd she kept telling me how much she mices me,tht im getting her all emotional cos she never thought that i would ever want to be with her after what she did,and that she is looking forward to coming to see me on friday , and i told her trust is something else but I am not going to fool myself and say i dont love her more than anything . Then bang she started not responding going on and offline reading my texts but not responding, after a while she apologised, but then asked me who informed me about her cheating cause she had it was some other girl which she dose not like at all, but infact the person that told her that lie was the person that told me this and he is another guy who he goes to school with and they talk e.t.c. she said that why did I not tell her the truth and protect the girl at her expense?,i told her that what i told her in the begining was the truth,which was, and now she is not responeding at all, infact she switched of her mobile data and dose not answer my calls,what hurts even more i bought her the data she is using now to chat with other people and ignore me, what did i do wrong

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