1 big complication…help!

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    relationshipa1
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    I have a guy friend Ive liked for a while, even before I started liking him we always hung out at school and flirted all the time(; and when he found out nothing changed, its summer break now, he told me about how he likes me, and we came to an agreement to date soon… and everydays seemed as if it was a fairytale we texted all day everyday, and Ive asked about his ex a lot and he said nothings going on, and all of a sudden, theyre dating, he hasnt texted me in 10 days now. But, his girlfriend did text me, and she told me I better be just friends with him and i better not try anything, but i think she saw the texts me and him sent each other because at 1st she was really mad, she said theyve been dating a month, and the guy I like has never been kind that lies, she said she doesnt care if we talk but just as friends, and he still hasnt texted me…He’s ignored all my texts. i dont get it. Oh… and when I found out they were dating I started dating a guy I dont even care about, but I feel like it looks good on me to have a boyfriend since he has a girlfriend. What do I do? I feel bad for dating a guy I dont even care about but I feel like Im going to look stupid if I dont when he does. What do I do about the guy I like? How do I get him to text me, everytime the girl hes dating now is around I take a seat on the bench, hes so sweet but I feel like Im always going to be his 2nd choice, I can almost garentee when they break up hes going to come back to me, Ive never felt like this about a guy, what would you suggest, please helpp 🙁 Thanks, Confused….

    #17057
    April Masini
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    You’re right — this IS getting complicated, so let me help you figure it out:

    1. The guy you like may like you, but he never liked you enough to ask you out on a date.

    2. You’re dating a guy you don’t like so you won’t “look stupid” to the guy who hasn’t asked you out.

    That’s it!

    So let’s start with number two first. It sounds like you feel badly about this guy you’re dating, and you’re basically using him. 😕 If you really want to get the first guy’s attention, don’t date someone you don’t like (it will show through, believe me). Instead — be confident; be interesting; be flirty; be someone he’s going to HAVE TO date…and after you’re your best self, if he still doesn’t ask you out, move on.

    I hope that helps. Let em know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter. 😀

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