1 year relationship

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    jessi_girl800
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    i am 17 and me and my boyfriend have been together about a year now. i love him a lot but when he is with his friends he ignores me and when i talk to him about it he says he is sorry and it wont happen again but then it does. when he says he will or wont do something he always does the opposite. every time we r together and i say one thing to my friends he says im ignoring him but then he goes and talks to his friends. im just really confused and dont know what to do i love him and i want it to work. please help!! what should i do?

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    April Masini
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    17 year old boys get distracted sometimes (okay, more than just sometimes) and in many cases, 17 year old girls are more mature than 17 year old boys. So he may not be able to be who you want him to be right now. It sounds like you’ve got good communication with him — the problem is he isn’t doing what you want him to do when you want him to do it.

    Accept that this is who he is and instead of making yourself crazy by wishing he was different, decide if this is worth it for you or not. If it is, enjoy. If it’s not, be clear with yourself why it’s not and that you want more. The decision is yours — but you’re not going to get him to be someone he isn’t. 😉

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