[relationshipa1]

Hello I am 19 years old guy and my ex is 16yres old , i was having a very strong relation with my gf , but suddently everything gone worst . when she starting going skool, she acts like irritated with me , talk with me in very irritations and in every thing she use to picup my mistake , like she started behaving frustated coz or skool burden or what i dun know , and then she was like , we shud stop , i don’t have feelings for you anymore. i dnt know where that feelings went off. and by mistake i accted desprate , i called her like 100 times , she was cutting call but i was ringing n ringing etc etc..now she hates me 🙁 i acted so much needy , n cried alot ,and said sorry for like 10000 times then now she has started talking to me as normal , but still i feels like shez talking coz i forced , and still she pic up my mistakes in everything, please help me what should i do , 🙁 i relli love her so much..i use to care for her , we were like talking 24/7 before …i think it was my biggest mistake to not to maintain a distance.

[April Masini]

First of all, I’m happy to help you, but next time, please post your question in the Q&A Forum at his link, [url]http://www.askapril.com/forums/viewforum.php?f=1[/url], on this site. You’ll get a lot more attention from other readers in similar situations, and more attention from me, there!

But since I’m here, now, here’s my advice:

Sadly, your girlfriend is breaking up with you, and your heart is splitting because you don’t want to lose her. It’s very normal for a 16 year old girl who’s in high school to have lots of different interests, and to want to keep her options open! The reason I’m telling you this is that it’s not necessarily your fault that she wants to break up with you. It’s actually age appropriate for a lot of girls her age. I hope that knowing that makes you feel less responsible for the break up. Sometimes, no matter what you do, the relationship just isn’t going to work out. Remember, 16 year olds who have long term relationships are more the exception than the norm.

You’re going to hurt for a while until you get over her, but there are things you can do to make your heart heal faster. They sound simple, but these tips work: Get enough sleep. Eat well (no junk!) 😉 , and exercise. Don’t sit around and mope. Get out of the house and spend time with family and friends who are supportive and want the best for you. Stay active. This is a great time to join a club or get involved in a political venture or a business or an activity you’ve always wanted to, but didn’t have time for. In other words, make yourself a priority. Buy yourself some new clothes so you feel upbeat. Get a haircut. Treat yourself well.

Then, start getting back into the dating game. My biggest piece of advice to you, this time around, is to find a woman who is not in high school, to date. Since you’re out of high school, your life is very different from a high school student’s life. You’ll have more in common with someone closer to your age — or lifestyle. You’ll also have more success in love with someone who isn’t in high school.

Hang in there! Broken hearts do heal, and you will find love again. 🙂

[jonathan200]

great info 😀

[MadysonBelinda]

I would say, that the girl is very young to indulge in serious love, so better leave her so that she can have time to study and look for a mature girl who can understand you

[Anonymous]

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[cyrix]

What Can you do To Get your Ex Girlfriend Back

Last time, we talked about how to get your boyfriend back. This time we’re gonna discuss the opposite.

Most people find themselves asking “What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back” following a breakup. They begin to start thinking and philosophizing about everything that could have been done differently. They even begin to make plans about apology letters and other things that might be able to help them score their relationship back.

This tends to be a dead end for one reason above all else: Because you can never really tell what the real reasons were behind a breakup. Women become emotional and sometimes they do not even know what led to the break up at hand and they may not know what is making them feel the way they do. In many circumstances it is only harmful to lose all your energy trying to figure out what went wrong.

The first main strategy to answer the question about “what can I do to get my ex girlfriend back” is to forget about the relationship for a while, putting your energy into something else. Go out, make friends, have fun, network, and forget about women in general. Set some realistic goals about expanding your repertoire when it comes to seduction and meeting people.

Give yourself a couple of months and make changes in your life. Take some time away from your ex and it will work wonders.

The effect that strategies like this will have, is that it will allow you to make gradual changes in your life. And in how you perceive the subject of relationships. After a few months, you may have a much better idea of how you want to proceed with your ex.

Do you still want to get back together with her? Or are you ready to move on? Act accordingly. If you still want to get back together with her, it might be time to figure out how she is feeling about you.

Now is your chance to be a little more direct when it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back. You need to play strategically, however. Do not simply beg her to get back with you, because this is not a good time to be emotional.

Instead, what you should be doing is playing things cool with your ex. If you have spent enough time apart from her, she is probably missing you as badly as you are missing her. Play hard to get a little (don’t over do it) and show her that you are doing fine without her. This will inspire her to really rethink things.

And if getting back together with your ex really is meant to be, now is the time when it will become apparent. Be careful not to analyze things too much, because over analyzing may prevent you from acting the right way when trying to figure out “what can I do to get my ex girlfriend back”. Just take things slow and play them cool and you should be fine.

[April Masini]

Let me know how things are going for you? 😉

[April Masini]

Let me know how things are going for you? 😉

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