Hi.. Im a newbie here… just wanna say thanx in advance…
Currently I am in the beginning stages of dating a musician… a really popular musician with a large fan base here in new york city… We just started sleeping together a week ago. Prior to that, he and I have built a friendship in the last 8 months.. I’ve also been to see him perform at his shows… he has never treated me like a sex object… he is a gentleman with great manners… I don’t feel like some kind of groupie when I’m with him…
He is quite handsome, so I know his is always dealing with groupies approaching him…
When he travels out of the country or anywhere, he keeps in touch, lets me know his fligts landed safely, and chats with me thru email/text… he is bad at calls becuz his phone constanly goes off, which is understandable..although he called me on the holidays and Valentine’s day, instead of texting to let me know he was thinking about me…I don’t mind the texting…
We slept together for the first time last week… he came over to my house, and we listening to music and had the best 3 hour conversation before making out… He took the time to tell me about his past as a child… his past relations with women and his future as far as his career, and he also asked me a lot of questions about my life…and what I want. He complimented me on how clean my house was… 3 hours later we were making out…
I know the rules state that a guy should contact you within 24 hours post date and/or sex… which he did… He texted me the next day to let me know he had a nice time… then I don’t hear from him 4 days later, and I get a random text telling me to come get some more (sex of course, lol)… I didn’t ask him for sex, but its obvious he wants it again… Its been 3 days and nothing from him.. I dont want to drive myself crazy wondering what he’s doing or who he’s doing it with, but he is a hell bent on his business and making money as a musician.. I don’t want to be gullible, I’m told old for that now…
I have cut my emotions out (or at least he sees it that way).. I absolutely do not call him or nag him for anything.. he told me I was mysterious…and he loves that… Not sure if he is playing games, or feeling me out to see my next move to see if I will nag/chase him down now that we have slept together, or if Im just being paranoid… and all it could possibly be is that he is extremely busy and I need to be patient… he is a celebrity.. I am not at liberty to say his name here, but could use to words of advice…thank you April and everyone here!
JB
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