My boyfriend (He’s 22 I’m turning 21) left the country a few weeks ago to go visit his family in Afghanistan. Before he left he sent me a text saying he wanted a break and was unsure of how he felt. I was heart broken and a few days later I asked him over facebook if by “break” he meant “it’s over”, he said he was unsure and asked if we could talk when he came back. A week later he told me I was still his girl, that he still loved me and really wanted to talk to me when he came home again and that he hoped I didn’t meet other guys. This is really frustrating for me, becaouse I can’t see him or at least call to talk to him..
He said the reason he left was to sort things out. He has a lot of problems in his life and with his family. And he used to smoke weed but quit a couple of weeks before he left. I know this is hard for him and I felt he could sometimes get really frustrated over small things. Anyway, he said he is thinking clearer now and felt stupid for breaking up with me.
But, in a week he will be home. And if he ment what he said, that he wanted to talk to me, I’m a little scared of what to say and what to do. I don’t want to rush thing so that I will end up hurt again. Are there some thing I should absolutely NOT do or say? Do I take him back with open arms or do I hold back at first?
Or should I forget all about him? Is it not worth it?
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