Am I in the friend zone? ? ?

[relationshipa1]

So this guy I know from mid and high school contacted me thru FB. Me and him were never friends friends, I had always crushed on him and we made small talk here and there and went to the movies once. Anyway, he gave me his number and told me he wanted to see me. I put it off for a couple of months, but now 6 motnhs later we have ‘hung out’ about 8 times or so. We don’t call them dates. : he invited me to a bbqq where I met his friends. He cooked for me at his apartment. But he has not made a move on me! No kiss yet! Just a tight hug! I’m not sure what to think of this. He probably knows I like him bc I flirt and bc of highschool. But I don’t know how or what to say to find out where am at? Or if I should just leave it alone, and let him make all the moves, including texting?Help 🙂

[April Masini]

How old are you both?

[Anonymous]

I’m 22 he’s 23. He’s a shy guy. But I thought he’d make a move by now. He always pays for our -not dates lol

[April Masini]

It really sounds, from what you’re describing, that he likes you. He may not be sure you like him, so make sure you’re flirting with him in a way that lets him know that you do like him. However… if he still doesn’t make a move, you should continue to date other people so you’re not so invested in him that you’re sitting around waiting. 😉

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[ebonypittman88]

@miss april, how will she flirt, specially online?

sorry…

[Anonymous]

@April, thanks, you’re so right. We are hanging out this week. And we will see what happens. 🙂

@Ebony, I hang out with this guy often, so I will try and Follow Aprils advice and flirt 🙂

[April Masini]

Flirting online means being playful and seductive with words because you can’t see each other in person. 😉

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