There are hills you just don’t want to die on — in other words, pick your battles, [i]and this is not one of them[/i]. The bottom line is that the two of you are great together. Her comments are annoying you because you want to be the only one she thinks is sexy and hot — but the reality is you’re the only one she’s sleeping with — she’s just someone who admires men openly.
So what can you do?
Don’t have “a talk” with her about this. It will just point out the problem. Instead, find your sense of humor on the subject. This requires you really understanding that she’s loyal to you and you have a great sex life. That’s where all good humor starts — a strong sense of self esteem. And then, next time she says something — you can find a way to make it work for you — for instance, if she comments on someone — take a moment to really look at the guy she likes and tell her that he is attractive — would she like it if you wore pants or shorts like he’s wearing? In other words, see what you can adopt from her “likes” in your own life and in your own bedroom.
And lastly, don’t put too much focus on this. Sometimes when you put attention on an issue, you add fuel to the fire, and if you ignore it, eventually, it goes away.
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