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  • #1257
    jamese17
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    So I went on a date with a guy I met through my adult kickball league. We had been talking on the phone a few times and had a great first date. The next day after our kickball games (we all go out to he same bar after) he came over to say hi and we talked, but then I noticed he spent the entire rest of the night talking up another girl and getting her number. But then the next day he sent me a text saying how it was good to see me and he was glad I made it out and we should go out again. I wasn’ planning on responding. I know it was just a date but at the same time, it felt kind of weird when he spent the entire other night talking to a girl right in front of me. But maybe I am requiring too much after a first date. Thoughts on whether I should respond to him or not?

    #9938
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Yes — you can respond, but make it WAY brief!! A simple smile face 🙂 is all that’s required in this text response! Got it?? Don’t call. Don’t e-mail. Be your fabulous self, but don’t chase him in any way or give him the impression that you’re too available.

    You went on one date with him, and it’s understandable that he’s playing the field — as are (or should be) you! 😉 Dating is a numbers game, and the more often you get up to bat, the more often you have the opportunity to hit a grand slam. So make sure that you’re still available to other men, and play the field in more than just your kickball game! 😆

    At the same time, do protect yourself, as you are now, by acknowledging that this is a nice guy, who’s “out there” dating the field to see who’s right for him. Who knows? Maybe it’s you. Maybe it’s that other woman. Maybe it’s someone else. Or maybe Mr. Right is on the opposing team you’re going to play next game! Keep an open mind and an open heart.

    [i][b]Date smart![/b][/i] 🙂

    #9939
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Yes — you can respond, but make it WAY brief!! A simple smile face 🙂 is all that’s required in this text response! Got it?? Don’t call. Don’t e-mail. Be your fabulous self, but don’t chase him in any way or give him the impression that you’re too available.

    You went on one date with him, and it’s understandable that he’s playing the field — as are (or should be) you! 😉 Dating is a numbers game, and the more often you get up to bat, the more often you have the opportunity to hit a grand slam. So make sure that you’re still available to other men, and play the field in more than just your kickball game! 😆

    At the same time, do protect yourself, as you are now, by acknowledging that this is a nice guy, who’s “out there” dating the field to see who’s right for him. Who knows? Maybe it’s you. Maybe it’s that other woman. Maybe it’s someone else. Or maybe Mr. Right is on the opposing team you’re going to play next game! Keep an open mind and an open heart.

    [i][b]Date smart![/b][/i] 🙂

    #9985
    optimistvik
    Participant

    hi, have a clear mind set and act smart. just see how he is behaving as if he is very clear in his actions. behave same way. dont expect anything from him. think he is just a friend and move.

    #9258
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Happy New Year! Please let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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