Third time writing to you…and a BIG thanks for the advice a month ago.
So the girl I wanted to ask out on a date accepted…twice now! Both times have been very good. Last night she smiled quite a bit and opened up about things in her life. She took her hair down while at dinner and looked stunning. We have great converstaions and seem to be comfortable with each other. I made sure I touched her…in an appropriate manner when given the opportunity. I want her to know I’m comfortable with her. She does not pull away when I touch and I even took her by the arm and walked her to her door. We spent much time looking into each other’s eyes and I could feel the conection…there was something about it that felt right.
Here is the problem…She does not pull away from me when I touch her, tells me her thoughts, and calls me up, but she seems quite shy that I’m giving her the attention. She is divorced from am abusive husband and was in a horse riding fall that left her with physical challenges. She has also put on a few extra pounds…which does not bother me. I think these 3 things bother her. Could she be in shock that somebody could love her the way she is now? She apologizes for the divorce, her walking, and her weight. Its like we are having a romantic time, but when its time to leave, she just kinda looks at the ground and says goodbye…but will message me at 1 am to let me know she had a great time. And she wears this top that is a bit more revealing than what she normally wears…so she seems to be trying to get my attention more.
So here is the question. Is it too early on the 3rd date, to get her alone, cuddle up, hold her hand, and just stay there in that state without words? I mean..if she did not want me dating her, she would not accept the offer…or be suggesting a date and what to do…like go fishing…something she knows I enjoy doing!…Is date 3 too early to just look her in the eyes next to the fire and just kiss her? She seems like the kissing and touching is something she needs, but just gets too nervous about it. I don’t want to rush things if she needs more time to realize that I’m fine with her just as she is. But should I just go for it?
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