[CutiePieSugar]

[color=#FF0000][b]Hi
I have been with my bf now over two years! Sometimes it’s great and sometimes it’s not great at all. It just seems like all he wants to do is fight anymore. Our personal life the intimacy part well, that’s only once a month! Just yesterday it was a fight about it! Usually when someone leaves the house weather it’s mine or, his mom’s we jump right to it and, instead it was let’s go get dinner? I got upset and because I got upset he was yelling at me for being upset? I just don’t know how much longer of this I can take or, how much I can handle his fighting anymore I think he just wants the relationship to be over. I do not know why he wants this to be over I have been so good to him and he knows it! He has threaten breaks on me plenty of times a couple of times he has threaten to break up with me. On his birthday he was all your not fighting with me anymore, I said that’s because I never did cause fights with you! He seems to think I am the one that cause the fights. Which I do not he always brings my ex’s in the picture asking me if I ever had caused fights with them I said no. None of us ever caused fights the reason they are my ex’s is because I wouldn’t give “it” up. Because of him bringing up the past I found out the real reason why my ex and I stopped talking and, he knows my relationship hasn’t been going well at all… He also wants to start over if my relationship doesn’t work out.. All my bf wants to do is fight and, the people I have talked to in chat rooms cannot tell if he is gay because, he brings his mother around too much. Or if he’s cheating they cannot tell? I have deep thoughts that he’s cheating but, last time on my previous relationships I have just accused of cheating. From the past I have learned I don’t accuse I catch them in the act instead this time. I haven’t caught en anything yet, but I have been deeply hurt the things he says to me hurts. The way he fights with me hurts and, I just do not understand why I keep putting up with it everyone wants me to leave him. I honestly have stopped saving my money because, we were planning on moving in together. He still wants to but I don’t think I can his best friend from elementary doesn’t think it’s a good idea with the way he has been acting. I have been letting him know I am not ready and, I am also scared that if I move in he’ll move his mother right on in… He keeps saying no but, I never know. Another thing is we’ll plan like “alone” trips together and, he brings his mother along. We went to Yellowstone last year and, he was nothing but a grumpy you know what. He kept calling me moody he kept calling me grumpy when I wasn’t being any of those things at all. I hung out with his mom the whole time because, he was so grumpy towards me his mom was the one telling him I wasn’t being grumpy… We ended up having a blow up in Jackson he just started yelling at me, saying we need to break up. I just don’t know what to do we end up working it out because, I tell him how he is. I thought of recording him the next time he has his outrage against me and, show him how he really is. I will just be sitting there typing and he’ll yell at me saying don’t type to hard! I end up just getting off his laptop… His friends can see how he treats me and, I can my grandpa sees it and, well my parents know a little. Because of his bringing his mom around too much just yesterday, we were going to lunch alone. His mom comes home and brings her along! Now they are fighting but, then they will be buddy buddy again soon. They have fights just like any other family would once in a while. But I just don’t know what to do with his outrages sometimes I think he is bipolar other times I just don’t know. Also when him and his mom fight he swears at her and, calls her bad names… I do not like that and one night we had a conversation about it. He said he would do better he didn’t at all when they ended up fighting yesterday. I said I thought you were going to do better and, he said I wish you would mind your own business… I just tensed up started shaking cause I am scared of him. He also said if I acted like his mother did he would do the same thing to me swear at me etc. I was like ok.. Then he sits and wonders why I am quiet afterwords and, I tell him I said look I am afraid of my head getting bit off. He also brought his mother around on Valentines day! She asked to come and I was in no position to say no. Yes he has been divorced before and, I can see a lot of reasons why she has left him. She re-married he found out by checking his credit a few weeks ago… He has also done a lot of things for me too like help me get a computer help me with my car etc. But I still do not know what to do I am trying to make this relationship work but he isn’t making the relationship 50/50. What do you guys think I should do? [/b]
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[kai]

RUN!

Why on earth are you even questioning what you should do? I don’t get it. 😯

This guy has shown you who he is and if you don’t want to be fighting all of the time, having sex just once a month and to be married to both this man AND his mother, what are you waiting around for? RUN!

Run as fast and as far away from this guy – and his mother – as you can! 😮

[katdawg]

I agree. RUN. If you stay tie your tubes so you don’t bring babies into that relationship.

[April Masini]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

I am here to help, and happy to answer any questions you have. 😀

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