Me and my bf started dating in April of 2014. In highschool, grade 10. So we were 15-16 ish. Now we are 18-19. It wasn’t a serious relationship at first. Started dating in April but before and the first weeks of us dating, he was snap chatting a senior from our highschool, exchanging nudes and sexts with her. This started a couple weeks before we started dating and then continued on for about 2 weeks after we started dating. They never met up or did anything physical in real life. I found out because word got around. I confronted him as soon as I found out which was around 2 weeks after we started dating, he told me it wasn’t him. His friends had his snap chat account and they were doing it and it would all stop from that moment on. He cried, he begged, called me multiple times, and even got one of his friends to text me and cover for him, “admitting” that they were the ones doing it. I believed him.
About a year later I messaged the senior and asked for details. She said he lied and it was him, not his friend. So I confronted him, and he told me that he lied. He said he didn’t know how to be in a real relationship because he had never been in one. I asked him why he never told me the truth and he said the lie had gone on so long he just didn’t know how/he wasn’t brave enough.
It has now been a little over 2 and a half years together and I he hasn’t done anything like this since. The worse thing that he’s done since is looking at almost naked famous women’s profiles on Instagram but that didn’t effect my trust. So do you think he’s bound to cheat again?
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