So, I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me. he’s an amazing boyfriend, and we’re very happy.. But, his ex still talks to him. all. the. time. and she’s nice to me too, but I know it’s fake towards me. I can’t tell what her intentions are. he knows it makes me upset, and I know it’s not him who initiates conversation with her. so I’m never upset at him. I just don’t like the way she still looks at him. and I don’t know what to say to him about it when it’s not him, and I don’t want him to get defensive or think that I don’t trust him… also, I can’t seem to stop thinking about their past.. ya know, their “past past”.. sex… he told me all about it before we started dating and I’m so nervous be still thinks about her. I don’t know what to do. all I do is stress out about it, but I keep quiet… He knows I get upset about it, he just repeatedly says “stop worrying” or “I’m not going anywhere”, but she really bothers me… he doesn’t hate her is also what he says, and I get that, but I just feel like for my sake.. he would care if it hurt me. I’ve said very little about it and when I do, he gets defensive like “it was her who came up to me” or something like that. it’s not that I think he’s going to leave me. it’s that I can’t tell if he still thinks about her, and I can’t tell if she is trying anything. she’s known for that.
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