I care about this girl alot however she drove me away because she was too controlling. She treated me like I was her pet to command and she had this “shopping list” of what a guy should be and do for her so they can prove they like her. At first I did some of the things she requested to keep her happy but other things I felt I was too uncomfortable (she didnt request sexual things) and when I didnt do them she would blow up at me. On and off on and off we kept trying to work it out, face to face we had great dates, great interactions it was perfect but over the phone it was annoying as I was always tested by her where I got terrified I couldnt talk to her anymore without saying something or doing something to upset her. I dont cheat and am loyal and surprise the person who matters to me randomly with gifts or romantic dates but she doesnt see it. She told me I worry her and cause her to lose sleep so I told her lets be friends only because her happiness matters to me. She didnt like this and is ignoring me but will respond if I text however shows no effort in wanting to talk, keep engaged or even want to see me. What should I do? Should I leave, is there something I can do to salvage this as a friendship only or even more if possible?
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