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[relationshipa1]

Hi I am so confused right now. Been with my bf for 12 yrs and these past few months I feel like there is other people that he might be interested in. Lately he’s been always going to the same dunkin donuts down the street from me to get coffee like 4-5 times a day and when he’s on the phone with his friends he makes little comments that is starting to make me think he’s interested in someone else. well yesterday he came by my house and i told him i had to go to the store which is right near the dunkin donuts he’s been going to everyday and he said oh i’ll meet you down there so when i got to the store he wasn’t there and i was looking for him but couldn’t find him so then i went into the store and when i came back out he was in the car but it seemed like he waited to get in the car until someone parked on the side of my car. so then on the way to bring him home someone beeped and he was like who was that and i said joking around oh your girlfriend and he was like which one and i was like the one from dunkin donuts. he was like yeah whatever so then that made me start to think even more. so i said to him so what were you trying to say when you said which girlfriend. he was like i told you that if you didn’t start changing things in this relationship that i’d start finding someone who was willing to be with me. he gets upset because i live in housing and he can’t be on the lease because of some legal trouble he was in a few years ago. so he gets mad when he wants to stay here every night and i tell him he can’t sleep or live with me. so i said are you trying to tell me that you’re interested in someone else and he was like actually there are a couple of people i’m interested in. i was like oh and i just dropped him off. i told him before i dropped him off that if he thinks i’m going to stay with him while he’s interested in other people that he’s crazy. he said then you need to start doing something about our relationship. the reason i’m confused is because i’m not sure if he’s saying this so that i’ll supposedly start working on our relationship or if he really is interested in someone else. not sure if i should end it with him and let him pursue these other people and if we’re meant for each other then it will work itself out or if i should try working on our relationship. he doesn’t even have a job and he still lives at home with his parents and he’s 36 yrs old. some advice please

[kai]

hey nicegirl2473, you posted your question in the wrong forum. 😮

this is where readers can post the columns they’re written themselves and for guest contributors. i doubt april will respond to your question here. 😯

if i were you i’d repost my question in the relationship advice Q & A forum. i notice april responds to nearly all questions herself, it’s the best advice forum i’ve ever seen.

[Anonymous]

I am so confused.While I studied 12th.Because my examination very bad. I comes result withing few day.During this time I am very confused.

[April Masini]

Let me know how things are going for you…. 😀

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