Hello.. This is a tough situation and I really need some help.
I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years. I made a terrible mistake by lying to him and never coming out with the truth. Then, about a month ago I finally told him the truth, why I did it, etc. At first he said that he understood, but then started to get angry the more he thought about it. Of course I can’t blame him because I would probably do the same thing.
After he said that he forgave me and that he loves me, he said that he doesn’t want to be with me any longer. I tried my hardest to tell him how sorry I was but in return, he said that he just couldn’t forget the lie and nothing I said can convince him otherwise.
A few days later we started talking again. Not as much as before but I thought that it was progress. He then said ‘maybe it will take some time’. It has been a month…
I started asking him, told him that I would wait forever for him. Then i started to get impatient and started to ask him a lot if he has made up his mind yet. I mean, it was seriously starting to kill me. It was hard for me to work, hangout with friends, etc. Just today I texted him and said please answer my call. His responses were ‘leave me alone’ and then ‘it’s hard for me to think about things when I’m getting annoyed by you’. I guess I understand but it wasn’t like I texted him a lot… I was just worried that maybe he would forget about me. I don’t know…
I know that it seems like i messed up and then keep messing up. I just don’t know what to do at this point. I truly love this guy and I want him to be happy. I wish so badly that things could be different. So, my question is what do I do? Do I wait for him to come to me, do I text him in a few days, or what?
I just don’t want it so that he was to ‘forget’ about me. The last time we went through something like this he dated a different girl almost the day after. It was a different story but I hope you understand why I would think that way??? Please help me…
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