Crush cut me off

[MaameAkua]

There’s this boy I had a crush on for a whole year. This semester, I told my two male best friends about it and they decided to let the guy know. Fortunately for me he came over to my room, and started getting to know me. He was very sweet, kind and fun to talk to. We didn’t do anything besides just chatting and then we watched a movie once. One time I was sick, he even brought me hot chocolate and Medicine and made sure I was doing well. He would hangout with me often for hours, sometimes till 5am in the morning. He never made any move and neither did I. I knew I liked him a lot but I wasn’t sure he liked me back so I never said anything or did anything. P.S I’m very shy and introverted. Now he’s got a girl that he’s into, and rumors have that they’re dating and he completely cut me off but I can’t seem to forget about him. I’ve tried by avoiding him but the mere sight of him brings back old feelings. What should I do? Please help me?

[April Masini]

You’ve got competition! 😉 He’s stopped contacting you because he met someone else he’s dating. If you want him back you have to flirt with him and entice him into wanting you. Flirting is a great way to let him know that you like him, you’re interested, and you want him to ask you out. Guys need some encouragement, so if they aren’t sure you like them or they don’t think you do — whether it’s true or it’s a misunderstanding — they’ll look for someone who does. If you’re shy and introverted, you have to find a way to let the guys you like know you like them so they can feel confident asking you out. If they mistake your shy and introverted nature for disinterest, they’ll move on because they’ll think you’re not into them. 😮 Make some changes in your behavior so you can flirt and give someone you like the hint that you’re into them. 🙂

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