okay so the guy i like told me he had feelings for me and i told him i had feelings for him as well… we’ve been talking for a while and even went to the homecoming dance together. But yeah he always tells me he likes me and even texts me at 3 or 4 in the morning. But recently i found out he’s also been talking to another who also likes him. So now idk whether to believe him or not. What should i do?
It sounds like he likes you [i]and[/i] he likes someone else, too. You can decide to accept the tacit challenge and compete for his attention or you can decide you don’t want to compete and walk away (which may get his attention even more!). Decide which is more appealing to you.