date girl problem .she says she love me but… :(

[someonefrustrated]

got this 1 girl . i have date her.during the date . she hugs me all the time and hold my hand until end of the date . everyday she ask me to call him or msg me to call her . when i reach home . in a call , she says she really likes me thats why she hug me and all ,all the time during the date . and she says she love me . and she gives me really2 big hope about us . but when i text her at facebook . she didnt reply my msg as lot as she replies other guys . and i’ve tried to make us as one , i mean couple . then she says she loves me but she’s not ready . . when i ask her if she really loves me or just it saying to make me feel better . she says “its not that , i really love u . and i feel like its not the truth and if its not the truth but why did she lie ? she knows that if she lies to me that will break my heart more . and now seriously im feeling so in love with her i cant forget her . we still contact now and she still says that she love me .everyday she ask me to call her ,every single day . when i ask her out she seems to be okay i mean that she wanted to go out with me . but with her attitude now it really shows the opposite .

now im really2 in love with her because she giving me hope and all . hmmmmm.
what should i do pls ?
what do u think she want exactly ?
what’s ur opinion ?
and how can i outcome this ? really2 frustated 🙁 pls helpppppp mee

[kitkat620]

i really don’t know what kind of help you are asking for exactly. from what you said, all indications point to her liking/loving you. why do you feel things have changed? what makes you think her feelings have changed?
i’ve never chatted on facebook, but i’m assuming you can chat with different people at the same time. maybe the reason she doesn’t answer you immediately is because she is having conversations with other people as well as you.
i think you need to slack off a bit. just let things happen at their own pace and don’t rush things or pressure her anymore than you already are.
it seems to me you’ve continually asked the same question and she consistently gives you the same answer.

[April Masini]

I’m a little confused by your e-mail. It appears you’re dating a girl, but you don’t like when she doesn’t respond to your messages on Facebook, but other than that, everything is fine — except that lately you feel that her attitude is the opposite of her words.

My advice is to continue to date her, but if you don’t feel comfortable with her after a few more dates, then understand that there’s a dissonance and no matter how much hope you have, hope isn’t enough to make a relationship work. There has to be shared goals and a comfortability between you and a lot of fun, too! 😉 Dating is a great process that you need to use to get to know her. Don’t put the horse ahead of the cart. In other words, don’t pretend this is Ms. Right until you really get to know her better. 🙂

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