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    gogogirl
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    My boyfriend and I have been together for 14 months and everything has been fine untill now. I recently got a job as a sumer camp instructor ( a job I have wanted since I was 8). I have to put in a lot of weeks but I get to see him on weekends if I have two weeks in a row. He doesn’t want to have me gone for that long so he thinks that he breaks up with me it would be better. Please help me keep my boyfriend, I really love him and think that we are strong enough to make it through this summer. Please help.

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    April Masini
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    You can’t always get what you want — and it’s not just the Rolling Stones who believe that. I do, too! 😆 Relationships work because of mutual goals and shared respect. While working a summer camp job is something you’ve always wanted to do, and now have the opportunity to do so, your boyfriend isn’t willing to compromise so that you get what you want.

    Don’t give up your summer job dream because he is giving you an ultimatum. If this is the best he can do for you, you can do better in the boyfriend department.

    I’m sorry that it’s not what you want to hear, but as you get older you’ll understand, as you are now, that life is full of decisions that shape who you are and where you wind up next. Make the right choice and take the job. You’ll meet lots of great guys at camp. I promise! 🙂

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