Desperately Need Advice

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    glowe83
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    Okay, currently me & my boyfriend have been together for 1 year. We recently were seperated in January due to a happiness situation, he goes out all the time, I work two jobs and it creates room for questions which he no longer wanted to answer not to mention who he is going out with is a girl that he previously attempted to date while he was trying to date me, and also an ex girlfriend he only dated for about a month, these are circumstances that I don’t feel I should have to deal with nor would I ever expect him too, so I came to the conclusion that this is what he wanted & it wouldn’t make me happy so it was better for each of us to move on. We were seperated for 2 weeks still texting/talking, when I started to get sick on a daily basis, little did I know I was pregnant only about 3 weeks at this point. So I’ve decided that I am having MY baby, not because it’s with him or any other circumstance besides it’s the right thing to do, any other decision would just be wrong and i’ve made plenty of wrong decisions in my life. Well, he starts coming over and decides that me and him should work on things so we have been trying to however, every week on thursday he goes out with either the ex or the girl, and it pretty much puts me in this depression where i’m angry all the time. I have previously voiced my opinion on this and that it makes me very unhappy but that never mattered. I met with him mom this past week and we talked for several hours and she asked me why I was so unhappy so I told her, It’s not a jealousy issue its more so a respect issue, if something bothered him I would make sure to eliminate the problem friend or not because I love him and want to make him happy. I’m looking for the general populations advice > am I crazy? should I deal with it? Let me know your thoughts

    #8934
    ThinkingRight
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    This guy is a piece of garbage and he’s treating you like crap. Dump him!

    If you decide to move forward and have the baby, hopefully he’ll step up and be a father to the child and pay child support, but as far as a relationship between you and him — forget it! He’s demonstrated already what he’s going to do and you have to accept it or move on.

    #31668
    April Masini
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    Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you.
    😉

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