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Did he over react? Or was I in the wrong?

April Masini Relationship Advice Forum Relationship Advice Forum Did he over react? Or was I in the wrong?

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    JillianK
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    I went to a party on Halloween, without my bf of 2 years because he doesnt go out, ever. And I met this guy when i was hammered, I was and are still not attracted to him in any way, if anything he would be a cool friend, but I cant because of my bf. This guy is a friend of my friend and she was going to give me a ride home, and she was his ride too. So on our walk to her car I gave this guy my jacket, because he was dumb and dressed up as a chippendale dancer without a shirt on! I saw this as a nice guesture, and didnt think anythign of it. But when I told my bf, he didnt seem mad, but then absolutly freaked at me a few days later because I was “too friendly” with a guy I didnt know. Even though he was my friends good friend, and I wasnt drunk to the point where I couldnt control myself. All I did was give him my jacket!! And I get shit on. I think he finds things to get mad about so that I dont go out and I sit at home doing shit all with him all weekend long. Everytime we fight about something like this, we both think we are right and we never want to give up, but then I give in just so he will shut up. And I apologized to him even though I didnt think I needed to. Who was right? I need another opinion…

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    April Masini
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    This isn’t about being right. It’s about being compatible. 😉

    You’re right because you didn’t cross any line of betrayal with this other guy. And your boyfriend is right because he doesn’t think you should be going out without him and you shouldn’t be befriending other guys while you’re out without him. He’s looking for someone who will stay in and be with him; you’re looking for someone who will go out and have fun with you.

    It really doesn’t sound like this is going to work out in the long run because you’re both right — you’re just not right for each other. 😳

    I hope this helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1154528031[/url]. 😀

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