[saumya19]

I am in a relationship with a guy from last 11 months. I am 20 and he is 22. We have a lot of differnce in opinion and choices. And could not reach to a conclusion or final decision. None of us is ready to compromise but we love each other a lot. Help us and suggest how we take mutual decisions irrespective of difference in opinion. Please reply.

[April Masini]

Rarely do couples agree on everything, so if you want to stay together you both have to decide where you will compromise and where you will not. If you can find places where you are willing to be generous and let your partner “win” and if your partner finds places where they are willing to give in and let you “win”, then the relationship will last. But, if you both dig in and refuse to compromise at all, the differences of opinion will become deal breakers.

I hope that helps.

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