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Do guys ignore girls they like?

April Masini Relationship Advice Forum Relationship Advice Forum Do guys ignore girls they like?

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    deedeewill
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    Is it possible that guys ignore women they are attracted to? If so what are the signs (such as body language etc), Would they try to attract our attention if they like us in other ways besides saying it outright?

    Thank you!!

    #22888
    bison
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    For me, I do ignore girls I’m interested in as the “marrying kind”. Why? Its hard to say why, but its almost like there is fear of rejection when you know for a fact that the woman IS what you want. So why not jump on the opportunity?…Because you women out there that have a good personality, are kind, fun, etc…are always looking for guys that are wild “bad boys”. Its like YOUR perfect match is not what SHE has in mind. Not all “nice guys” are “NO FUN”.

    #22776
    April Masini
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    Thank you, [b]bison[/b], for such honest comments. There ARE women out there who don’t go for bad boys, and there are women out there who have been burned by bad boys and are ready for Mr. Right. Don’t give up! 😉

    Usually guys who ignore girls that they like ARE afraid of rejection — and this is really a shame, because rejection is part of life. It’s like never graduating high school because you’re afraid of taking tests — so you never take them, and never graduate. Rejection (like bad grades) is a gift that sets you in the right direction and lets you know you’re doing something right or wrong. YOU then have the opportunity to make changes to yourself, your style or the women you’re asking out! 🙂 I hear from a lot of men who waste time “following” a love interest without ever putting themselves up to bat and asking her out because of their fear. By the time they do ask her out, whether they get a yes or a no, they’ve wasted waiting time. Sometimes it’s years. It’s MUCH better to get a no and move on, then to harbor false hope because of a fear that is bigger than doing the right thing for you. 😉

    I hope that answers your question. Please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1154528031[/url]. 😀

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