Do I have a chance?

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  • #1181
    shyandunsure
    Participant

    OK,
    So i met this guy at a friends wedding a few weeks ago. At first i just thought he was really interesting, but the more i hang out with him(in groups) the more i like him. I told my best friend who has known him for a while that i like him and she warned me to not get too attached because he hasn’t dated for awhile and is focused on finding a new job and his classes at the moment. He also kind of hinted that he wasn’t really interested in anyone. Would he say that even if he possibly likes me?
    Me and this guy talk on the internet occasionally for a couple of hours, and he asks me all these questions(nothing personal just like favorite soda stuff like that). I also believe he flirts with me occasionally, from the first time i met him he has given me a hug when we say goodbye and he occasionally teases me .How can I tell if he likes me or not? Are there signs to look for?Should I tell him I like him or just play things out?
    ~Shyandunsure

    #9943
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    You do have a chance, but you have to play it cool. You’ve already made yourself available. He knows how to reach you, and you have a nice internet relationship. But….you’ll know he’s interested in you when he asks you out on a date. It’s really simple.

    In the meantime, here’s what you can do to make it more likely he’ll ask you out. I know it’s going to sound contradictory at first, but it works. Trust me! If you make yourself too available to him, he’s not going to need to see you. So you have to tease him a little and flirt with him, and make him want more — without giving him too much.

    While you can’t MAKE him ask you out, you can make yourself more attractive and intriguing to him. You can make it so that the only way he can get more of you is if he asks you out. If you’re always available for him for hours on the internet, you’re going to reduce your chances of him asking you out.

    Think about it this way: Men want to chase women and try to catch them. They want to feel like they’ve gotten a prize when they get the girl. If you make yourself too available and don’t make him chase you, he doesn’t have a prize to win. He’s got the booby prize!

    If you want to know more about how to get the guy, check out my book, Think & Date Like A Man, by clicking on the Dating Advice Books at the top of this page, scrolling down, and then you’ll see my book for only $14.95. You’ll get a lot of advice you can read and re-read to reassure yourself that you’re doing things correctly.

    #9944
    shyandunsure
    Participant

    Thank you,
    I will definitely give this a try and i plan on purchasing your book as soon as i get a job 🙂 it sounds really interesting.

    #31594
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Let me know how things are going for you…. 😀

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