I feel like I have the worst luck because last week I went on a date with a girl and sure enough I ran into my ex’s BEST friend and when I asked who she was with she replied “oh just some friends” and winked. I know she was with my ex and nothing even came out of this date but I’m sure my ex is probably thinking I have a new girlfriend now and is mad at me. Of course this has to create a whole new element.
Thanks for the great advice, I did exactly as you said. I tried calling and received no response so I sent her a pretty long text message telling her exactly how I felt. If I was trying to get back with her I woudl never have said the things I did. I emphasized that I am not trying to get her back (which I can accept now) and I told her that it’s probably for the best. She didn’t respond to it which hurts me so I told her that I don’t want to be best buddies but I want to be on good terms. I know I need to put her behind me but there’s so much pain when the most important person in your life of the past 5 years wants absolutely NOTHING to do with you. However, I know she has a heart and all I want is for her to understand even if that means were no longer together. I really care about this girl and not just romantically. It’s been hard living with myself because it’s tough being alone and all I can do is think that I deserve to be alone because there’s something wrong with me. Even though it seems totally irrational its casting a ton of self doubt and not helping me enjoy life and meet new people
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