Does he actually like me? If so, how does he feel about me?

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    relationshipa1
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    I started going out with this guy a week or so ago, and apparently he really likes me. However, he does not act like it. Whenever I do occasionally see him (which is usually down to our mutual friends meeting up and not to any effort of his own), he always seems slightly uncomfortable and like he’d rather I wasn’t there. He’s always really shy around me still. I’ve tried to talk to him on msn etc, but whenever I do, he always gives me short, one word answers and it’s usually him who abandons the conversation (when he goes offline he doesn’t even say bye to me) He does like kissing me when I’m with him and is quite sweet. Apparently his last relationship was difficult and his girlfriend cheated on him. At the start of the relationship he seemed really into me, but his enthusiasm has trailed off a lot since then. His friend says he really does like me but he has trouble trusting and “needs me to prove that I’m worth it”. What could be wrong with him? Why is he acting like this?

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    April Masini
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    Forget him — why are [b]you[/b] spending time with someone who isn’t treating you like he likes you or respects your company?

    Lots of time women waste their lives, month by month and year by year, trying to turn the wrong men into Mr. Right, and then all of a sudden, decades have passed and they’re wondering where all the good men are! Well, I’m here to tell you that if you stop spending your time on the wrong guys, you’ll be available for the right ones. When you allow yourself to get tied up socially and waste time emotionally on men who don’t have the qualities of someone who’s going to be Mr. Right or are able to commit, you’re keeping yourself out of the winning game.

    Dating is a numbers game, and in order to find the right guy, you have to keep getting up to bat, but you have to be discerning about who’s pitches you’re going to swing at. This guy is throwing you an outside pitch — it’s not even over the plate — so don’t swing!

    Don’t date men with trust issues. Don’t date men who feel you have to prove something to them — especially when you haven’t done anything wrong. Don’t date men who aren’t nice to you! And don’t waste your time wondering what’s wrong with him. Instead, think about what’s right with you, and who deserves you!

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