[Marie]

Ok so i met 1 of my cousins friends. He asked for my number and told my cousin he thinks im hot and nice. But after 2 days of talking im crushing big time. I told him i like him and he only said ‘thanks’. Its mixed signals, because his the 1 chasing me. Was it to soon to tell him, or is he reading me wrong?

[April Masini]

Yes, it was too soon to tell him you like him. If he likes you enough to ask you out on a date, he will. In the mean time, protect your heart and keep busy and keep your eyes open for other guys who also think you’re hot!

[Anonymous]

Thanks for ur advice. Gud news is he asked me out, and really likes me if im getting the signs right. He talks bout how he really wants to kiss me, he always starts the conversations, flirts as well. The problem is my cousin is now telling me this guy ‘might’ be a player, n i really dnt wanna get hurt. Wat shld i do?

[April Masini]

It sounds like he is a player if he’s talking about kissing you and you haven’t even gone on a first date yet! However, the way to protect yourself is to not act like a victim of a player. 😉 Let him take you out on a date — don’t agree to hang out. Only go if he’s going to pick you up, take you somewhere nice, pay for the date, and bring you home. Flirting is great, but you don’t have to kiss him on the first date if you don’t want to, and you certainly shouldn’t do more than that on the first date.

Treat yourself like a valuable commodity, and men will, too — and if they don’t, then don’t go out with them.

I hope that helps! 🙂

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