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October 9, 2011 at 9:34 pm #4416
happy_chrissy
ParticipantI met a guy last year thru a social function where he wanted my number, which I gave to him. Last year, he texted me to hang out with him and his friends since my friends and I were going to be in the hamptons for the holiday. He brought his friends over to the house that my friends and I were staying out and we had never hung out like this before. We had a great weekend. After the weekend finished, I had texted him that we should do this again and he replied absoultely. Well, I didn’t hear from him and this was last year. I figured, what ever. Now, I just saw him again this August where he didn’t bring up why he did not call and of course, I didn’t either. However, he did not leave me alone at the function that we were at, he was by my side the whole time talking to me, wanting to know what was going on with me, and that he would not move back to the island, unless he was getting engaged(where did that come from?? i have no clue.weird..) Anyways, till this day, he does not initiate text, he only responds back to me every time I text him and he texts me back every single time very quickly; within 2 minutes..I do not get him? Maybe he is shy, I do not know? Why bother texting me back if you are not interested and why not just ignore my text or just tell me he is not interested???
October 26, 2011 at 12:39 pm #20557kai
ParticipantI notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors. [b]This is not in the forum where April answers readers questions.[/b] If you want to get a response from April, please repost your question in the proper forum, the Q & A Advice Forum:
http://www.askapril.com/forums/viewforum.php?f=1 October 28, 2011 at 11:15 pm #20487totaltwifan
ParticipantHmm well that’s weird lol. I think that maybe he is still confused about what he wants with you and maybe he isn’t initiating conversation because he doesn’t know what to think, while at the same time he is texting you back and staying friendly with you to keep you around. He might be thinking that eventually he will want something with you, in other words. So I think maybe based on your how you feel about HIM, you should either be bold and confront him about what he wants OR maybe be even bolder and stop texting him and wait to see if he ever initiates conversation with you. If he doesn’t, and time has gone by then you can cut your losses and move on. But if you really have feelings for the guy, then I would just confront him about it. Your guess is as good as mine though girl lol. I’m going through the same sort of thing right now myself. Good luck 🙂 November 5, 2011 at 3:15 am #20612ankit
ParticipantThis guy definitely have some interest in you .Maybe he likes you but right now not able to think like what he has to do regarding you and him as a relation.Let him take his time to decide,maybe this would benefit your relation later-on. November 9, 2011 at 8:03 am #20652Dating
ParticipantWell I think that he is not certain what he wants and by replying to your messages promptly he is trying to keep you interested in how ever long it is until he either figures out what he wants or maybe he just enjoys the attention and is playing a mind game.either way I suggest you quit being the first to always text and if he does not text you too bad you have put signals out there but if he is too blind then it’s his loss. Lonely and looking for love?Come and join our online dating community. Signing up and setting your online profile is free.Free dating site, featuring chat rooms, personals and singles from South Africa.Feel free to visit
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ParticipantI notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors. [b]This is not in the forum where April answers readers questions.[/b] If you want to get a response from April, please repost your question in the proper forum, the Q & A Advice Forum:
http://www.askapril.com/forums/viewforum.php?f=1 January 23, 2016 at 7:58 pm #31947April Masini
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