Try to understand that since you’ve only been dating for two months, popping by unannounced feels like a privacy violation. If you’d done this after dating for a year or two, it would seem more normal. But because you don’t know each other that well, it’s too soon to do “drive by visits”. It also makes you look a little desperate when you go to her house because she didn’t answer your text quickly enough. 😕 Time for you to chill. 😎 Send her beautiful flowers with a note that explains you’re sorry and that from here on in, you’ll lay back even when you want to see her because you’re crazy about her. And then walk the walk. If she’s sick, ask if there’s anything you can do. If she doesn’t respond or says no, hang back. Don’t show up unannounced and don’t call or text too much — you want her to think that you want to see her — not that you’re desperate or neurotic. Take a breath and enjoy. I hope that helps!
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