Feelings for my husbands best friend :-/

[Kiverson1331]

Hi,
I am married to a wonderful man but for the last few years I have started having feels for his best friend. I have tried to distance myself but overtime we are around each other the feelings come flowing back. We have so much in common more than my husband and I. I don’t know if the feelings are from his end too but sometimes it seems like it but I am not his type. I don’t know what to do I feel horrible but at the same time I feel like I am not getting the fullest out of my relationship because of my feelings towards this other man. I feel like a awful wife because I do have these feelings. Am I the only person who ever HD to deal with this? What do I do about the feelings? What do I do about my husband? Someone please help!

[April Masini]

We all have feelings — but it doesn’t mean we act on them. 😉 Just because you have feelings for your husband’s best friend doesn’t mean you should do anything about them. Sometimes a crush is just a crush. You haven’t really mentioned anything about your five year marriage — and if you want to stay in it, or leave it. If you want to stay, then you should consider your feelings towards your husband’s friend as just a crush and turn your focus towards your marriage, but enjoy the crush in a flirty and innocent way. But if you want to leave the marriage, then you should do so — without creating drama by looking for someone to help get you out of it. 😉

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