So at school I have a group of 5 good friends. One of them is a guy (John) and four girls. This year he glowed up and now is really confident, cute, nice, but very flirty. It turns out that all four of us have a crush on him BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND THAT LIVES IN HONG KONG. I’m better friends with one of them (lets say her name is Anna) and we shared our feelings for this guy and talk about him all the time. One of the four, let’s call her Emily, Anna and I are annoyed with recently so we can’t tell her how we feel about this guy. She is really obvious about liking this guy and she is telling everyone at school. the fourth girl, (sally) is very flirty with other guys and John and she admitted to liking John to Anna and I (Emily is our friend but Sally, Anna, and I are better friends and Anna and I are the best of best friends). Okay so about John: He leaves his guy friends to talk to us (kinda a big deal, girls and guy groups are somewhat separate at our school) and always touches/holds hands with all of us, hugs us from the back or front, tells us he loves us a lot, tells us we are beautiful, always asks if we need help, wraps his legs around us when we sit down, comes in really close proximity, tells us we are hot/ he would want to bang us etc. (he mostly does it to Anna, Sally and I, depending on the day or the week) but he also insults us a lot to be funny I guess. I guess my question here is what the hell is going on? He definitely comes and talks to our group of friends at lunch because he likes someone but we don’t know who and why. Am I waisting my time liking him?
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