Dear April,
I ve read your advice to gobelindago about the feminism and I 100% agree with you . And I am blessed to have a boyfriend who makes sure he is the man: takes me on dates, holidays abroad, shopping sprees where I try on things and he buys them . . . We have a lot of fun with our shopping and he is very generous in his attitude and with his money. After the shopping I model for him . . . And then we go out and have fun . . . And he pays for that too.
Sometimes, when I am financially comfortable I like to buy things for him and believe me I feel very good to do that. And then he models for me and we go places and have fun or do some serious work. Anyway, most of the cases he wants to buy things for me.
Since all these years he is the one who took me all over the world and paid for it with grace and generous attitude I am planning to treat him to a Pleasure trip . It would make me feel very good but my question is dear April what is this going to make him feel ? Is it a smart approach ? Is it going to come across as if I am trying to seduce him ? Which in part would be true . . . Maybe not really . . . My motive is that I would love to treat him and make him special as he makes me feel, but would I in this case be trying to be the man ? Which in fact I am not trying to , just want to treat him !
He recently paid for a medical intervention , I did not ask him , he offered .
So what do you think about this ?
Your advice would be much appreciated and looking forward to read from you.
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