Girlfriend and Tattoos

[soccermiddy222]

Hey there, So I’ve been dating this girl I’m with for about a year and a half now. Everything is really great on so many levels with us. Recently she got a tattoo and I never really told her how i felt about it i just expressed that i wasn’t okay with it. She recently told me that she wanted another one and now it’s something i feel like i need to bring up. I’m a really good guy, very insightful and i treat her well. i work hard and hold myself to high standards, but I’m embarrassed by her tattoo(s) because i hold myself to those high standards in society. I don’t want this to be a deal breaker but i feel really strongly about this issue. All i can think about is growing old together (because i do see that as a possibility) and having someone say “grandpa look at grandma’s tattoos!”

What are your thoughts?

[kai]

Hi, you’ve posted in the Readers Advice Columns and Guest Contributor’s section and you are not going to get an answer to your question here. 😮

If you want your question answered, post it in the Relationship Advice Forum Q & A section. 😀

[April Masini]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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