I met this guy a couple of months ago very briefly and since we live a couple of hours away from each other, we kept in touch through text messaging and video chats. Although I wasn’t interested in anything else but a friend I could talk to from time to time, he seemed to like me a lot as time progressed. He would send me expensive gifts, send me text messages asking how my day was going and telling me how pretty I am, etc
A couple of days ago, he came over to my town and we hung out. I ended up spending the night with him, but since he seemed so eager to have sex with me, I tried to resist him. The day after we had a lot of fun together and he brought up the topic of a serious relationship. I said I was open to that and he invited me for another date a couple of days later. I want to mention that throughout our time together he kept telling me how hot I was which I found to be inappropriate. It made me think he might be after sex only but, if that is the case, I don’t understand why he would shower me with expensive gifts and clothing.
However, since I hadn’t heard from him in a couple of days, I decided to text him four days after our date asking if he had time to call me but he said he didn’t and that he would call me the next day which he didn’t. This has happened quite a few times before so I didn’t think much of it.
The day on which we were supposed to go out on a date passed without him contacting me. It seems like he went completely cold on me and – as many women probably would – I keep wondering what I might have done wrong to scare him away. After all, I tried to keep an open mind during our whole friendship/relationship and he was the one bringing up the serious topics. I expressed to him that I am not looking for a fling, but that I want to take things as they come and not force anything on anyone. He said he was ok with that and that he wanted to try that with me one day at a time.
This whole situation is confusing me. Any advice? I would like to hear what outsiders think of this. Thanks.
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